Peer Pressure

I guess this is not only happen to myself, but to most of the people in the society.

When you grow older, do you feel like avoiding to meet up with you circle of schoolmates, ex-colleagues, ex-bosses etc? If yes, you are probably bored with the measurement that put onto you which you never ask for.

Why there are people interested to probe how well you are doing? Have you married? How many kids you have? How are your kids doing in school? Do you play golf? What car you are driving? Seems those topics are getting more and more common.

Even for good friends who don't ask such questions, some are less willing to share their innermost feelings.

The bright side of it, you will start to make friend with loneliness. Sometimes you don't mind to do things alone. The best part of it, you know who is the one really caring about you and who are the person that you care most. Obviously you spent more time with your family. It has crossed a point whereby last time you prefer to spent time with friends and ignoring your family. Then you start learning to be true to yourself. You no longer beg for favoritism. Just be your own-self who you are comfotable with,